One thing you need to embrace as you move forward is that you get to do it at your own pace...in your own time. You need to hold on to that concept with both hands!
There is a lot of information available on just about any topic these days. The internet is a gift of resources but it can also give you information overload. So you, my friend, need to take things at your own speed. Get what you need and then act on what is useful in your own time.
Acting on someone else's timetable simply will not work long term. The motivation, the push has to be from you. And when in your stomach you feel it's right...you act.
A perfect example of that was in Tyler Perry's movie Madea's Family Reunion. One sister was being abused and while her sister wanted her to act and leave the situation...the sister who was being abused acted when it was right for her. It was her timeline. Not her sister's. It was in her own time.
Is there a danger you may not act? Yes, there is that danger...but no action is action by default if you think about it. And if no action feels right to you..then it is right for you. That is a choice you get to make. I have come to really understand that life is about movement and standing still. You get to decide when you move and when you stand still...in your own time.
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