It's your life. You decide.

I think input is great.  When you are going to make a big decision it's fine to ask for other people's input.  Gather some opinions.  Then you can consider them if you wish...sort through them.  But in the end..it is up to you.

Plain and simple.  Your life.  Your choices.  Your responsibility.  It is how it is suppose to be.

*I know this seems simple but you would be surprised how many people don't embrace this.  Sigh...