I know it's still football season and two teams I like are playing in the big game...but this baseball mantra works any time of year.
Swing towards the fence!
If you are going to take a swing at something...why not go big and knock it out of the park?
Lots of folks don't do that. They are tentative...second guess their "swing" from the get go.
Playing any game like that won't get you what you want. That may be the source of your swing issue...if you are having one. What ya swing at?