If you treated yourself like someone who loved...you would say...finish your unfinished business. That was Thomas Leonard's recommendation and I think it's a great one.
Finish your unfinished business. It holds you back and it holds you down. Finish whatever it is that needs to be finished.
Sometimes we don't finish things because we think by ignoring them they will magically change. I have tried that tact...has not worked yet. Finish your unfinished business.
Sometimes we don't finish something because it scares us. So if we avoid it...then we won't have to deal with the scary parts. That just keeps it on the edge of our consciousness ready to pull us back to fear everything we think about it. Finish the unfurnished business.
Sometimes it's too painful to let someone go. So we hold on to the memory of what was or what we want it to be thinking it will magically become that. That gets us nowhere. Trust me as a hanger on for 10 years. It does not change. Finish your unfinished business.
Take some time to look around your life and finish your unfinished business. We are on a march to the end of the year. Commit yourself to finishing your unfinished business by the end of 2009.
Do for you. Do it because you are treating yourself like someone you love. Do it because you want to be ready to embrace all the joy you can and then only way to do that is...you know now...finish your unfinished business.