We don't deserve it!

How often have you heard or said that? Or thought that in your heart of hearts?

It is pretty difficult to get the life you say you want when you have that gigantic roadblock standing in your way! It a very large why we may have standing in our own way. And that sucker has to be moved to the side...

First where does it come from?  Well not all of us have been blessed to be born into families of cheerleaders.  We were not all told from little on that we could be anything we want to be, have anything we want.  Some of us came from families that said we were worthless and would not amount to anything. A lot of us came from families somewhere in the middle.

Any feedback you received as a child stuck with you.  You are graceful..you are clumsy.  You are gifted...you are a disappointment. It all goes in.  As children we don't have the ability to filter it out.  We don't have the skills to look at the intent or motive of the sayer..we, as the receiver, just take it in.  It becomes part of our memory bank and part of our unconscious belief system.

It can help lift us higher and higher or ground us. 

Think this isn't an issue for a lot of people? It is... Why do you think that poster that says "God doesn't make junk" is so popular?

Tomorrow how to tell if you need to move this why...and how to do it with grace :)